Marriage Infidelity: Stay Or Go

In terms of relationships, marriage infidelity is the ultimate betrayal but not every relationships comes to end. If you do decide to go forward than there are certain things you should consider.

It takes a lot of strength and effort to be married and stay married. No one should ever get their way all the time so for that reason you are going to have to compromise in some areas. If you were single then it’s a little easier to hold your ground.

Posted on June 27, 2008 Filed Under Marriage | Leave a Comment

Love not Fear

If you are in the throes of a divorce, you’re probably on one of the strongest emotional roller coaster rides of your life. This splendid article provides practical tips for supplanting your fear with love.

Being a divorced parent can initially be a scary experience. You’ve just been emotionally slammed. The partner that you made a life time commitment to has fled the scene, and you are now scratching your head and feeling overwhelmed with dozens of questions scurrying around inside your head, juggling like a maniac. How am I going to take care of these kids? Will I have a social life ever again? Will my parents be disappointed? Will I have to listen to my sister June say “I told you he was a creep?” Will the kids have abandonment issues? It goes on and on.

Posted on June 3, 2008 Filed Under 231 | Leave a Comment

Responsibility vs Blame - Is It Possible?

When divorced parents expend a lot of energy pointing fingers of blame at one another, the children suffer. Here are some interesting words to help you become more objective for your children’s sake.

Blame. We all do it. We blame others for things that they deserve to be blamed for and things that they probably don’t deserve. Placing blame seems to be a technique that we learn very early on. When you think of children even as young as two or three years old, you can hear them saying, “She did it. It wasn’t me!”

Posted on May 3, 2008 Filed Under Family | Leave a Comment

Keep Your Cool

Going through a divorce can really stir up emotions like margaritas in a blender. But if you’re going to be the best parent for your kids, you need to turn the blender off and learn how to keep your cool.

In the first few years of being divorced, we find that our emotions go through huge vacillations. One minute you’re a calm, kind loving parent - maybe a little overindulgent - and the next minute you have no patience or tolerance for the kids you truly love because now you’re irritated. It’s a huge flip flop, and it’s probably something you ought to consider getting under control, because while it might be normal, in the end it isn’t productive for either you or your children. You only get one chance to raise them right.

Posted on May 3, 2008 Filed Under Family | Leave a Comment

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